The process of manifesting is easy.
In fact, we do it every day – it comes as naturally to us as breathing.
It’s consciously manifesting that’s the tricky part.
In my practice doing manifestation coaching, my main focus is on helping my clients manifest their dream life.
But if life is a journey, it’s important to have a clear destination for where you’re going.
After all, if you’re going on a trip, you tend to have a destination in mind, right?
The same is true for manifestation – how can you manifest the life of your dreams if you don’t know what the life of your dreams looks like?
But the world around us has filled us with so many different messages about what our dream life is supposed to look like that for many of us, it can be difficult to get a clear picture of what that dream life might be.
The expectations others have of you, feelings of guilt instilled by parents or others, people pleasing habits, and more can all hold you in a place where you’re so busy tending to what others want that you lose sight of what it is you want in your life.
In some cases, we can live for decades before we discover that the way we’ve been living is ultimately unfulfilling.
But the good news is that it’s not too late.
It’s never too late.
The life of your dreams is there for you, waiting.
You can begin to manifest it today.
But before you manifest the life of your dreams, it’s important to understand what your dream life actually looks like.
Here’s how.
Start By Exploring Your Feelings
Some people have a very specific idea of what they want their life to look like.
They know what their house should look like, where it’s located, who their partner will be like, how many kids they’ll have, how many vacations a year they get to take, what their hobbies will be, etc etc.
If that’s you, wonderful.
You’re a few steps ahead.
But for others, it can be hard to get an idea of what your wants are from a more specific, material perspective.
That’s not surprising, believe it or not, since most of the time we don’t actually desire material things, but the feelings that come along with them.
If you want to manifest a life of wealth and abundance, for example, for you it could be more about the sense of security, safety, and being in control that comes with it than the actual material wealth itself.
If you want to manifest a healthier lifestyle, it may not be about establishing healthier habits as much as it is about the feeling of wellness that comes from practicing those habits.
We’re emotional creatures, and just about every desire we have comes from a need to either heighten the emotions we like, or dampen the emotions we don’t like.
When it comes to working on understanding the life of your dreams, consider what feelings you’re lacking in your life.
Perhaps it’s a lack of romantic love, or a lack of confidence, or of physical pleasure, or freedom, or any one of a hundred different feelings we may have.
Understanding these feelings is the first step toward understanding what can help you fulfill the needs you lack.
Explore What You Don’t Want
On the other hand, sometimes it’s easier to understand what we currently have that we’d like less of.
After all, most of us have a pretty clear understanding of the elements in our lives that bother us.
If you’re deep in debt, for example, or you feel like you’re stuck in an unfulfilling relationship, or a job you hate, you’re probably pretty aware of the icky feelings they trigger.
Consider these feelings more closely.
Because just like above, it’s not the elements of our lives we dislike, but the feelings that come along with them.
If you frequently feel lonely, or disappointed, or annoyed, or stressed for example, those might be feelings you’d like to feel less often.
But the problem is that understanding these feelings as something you’d like less of only gives you a sense of what to run away from, not what to run toward.
Running away from what you don’t like in your life is a great first step, but without a clear direction of what you actually want your life to look like, you run the risk of ending up in a situation that’s just as unfulfilling as the last one.
The good news is that it’s simple to understand what to run toward.
It’s the opposite of what you don’t like.
If you feel lonely, consider what a life full of companionship and community might feel like.
If you feel stressed, consider what a life of relaxation and peacefulness might look like.
Consider what the opposite of what you don’t like might be, and you’ll have a clearer idea of what your dream life looks like.
Be Selfish In Your Desires
Your dream life is yours, and nobody else’s.
It’s your life to live, and you get to shape it into what YOU want it to be.
In the process of manifesting your dream life, it’s okay to be completely selfish about what you want it to look like.
That doesn’t mean you should be ruthless or cruel to the people around you, but far too often we get caught up in what others want our life to look like, or comparing our lives to others, or what society tells us our life should look like.
And if what you want happens to match up with what the people in your life want for you, that’s great.
It’s not a bad thing.
But it’s worth considering what your life might look like if you were free of these expectations.
Ask yourself – if you weren’t restricted by your job, finances, family obligations, etc. what would you be doing with your life?
This can help you understand what your dream life looks like.
Understand The Reasoning Behind What You Want (Or Don’t Want)
Everybody wants different things.
Some people want a lavish lifestyle, and others would be happier living a more modest life.
Either way it’s okay, but it’s important to understand the reasons behind why you desire whatever you desire.
If you f want a lavish lifestyle, ask yourself why.
Is it because that’s what you want your life to look like, or is it because of outside influences telling you that that’s what you should want?
Do you feel like you need to live up to what others expect your life to look like?
Did you have parents that pushed you into a high paying, high status career because they wanted stability for you?
Have you spent your life engrossed in celebrity culture and find yourself pulled into all the glitz and glamour, desiring that for yourself?
Or, do you genuinely want a lavish lifestyle because you believe it will bring you the feelings you’re missing in your life?
Whatever the answer you come to is okay, no judgment.
But it’s important to know the reasons, because if you want something because an outside force tells you that’s what you should want, all the vision boards and mindfulness meditation sessions in the world won’t keep you motivated to manifest it.
The same is true on the other side, though.
If you don’t want a lavish lifestyle, why is that?
Is it because you believe such a lifestyle is unattainable?
Is it because you believe you don’t deserve such a lifestyle?
Or is it because you believe it would genuinely be unfulfilling and you’d be happier living more modestly?
Again, there’s no wrong answer here – but recognizing what it is you want, and why, is an important part of understanding and manifesting your dream life.
You manifest what you feel and what you believe you can have.
Book Your FREE Connection Call With Evelina Hovich Today
As I write this, there are 7.75 billion people in the world.
That means there are 7.75 billion different dream lives, and limitless ways to manifest them.
Each of us came here to live one life in this physical reality, but the way we live it is a truly unique experience.
Whatever it is your dream life looks like, it’s not my place to judge – only to facilitate.
I’m Evelina Hovich, a manifestation life coach, and if you feel like your life isn’t where you want it to be, I can help.
Whether you hope to manifest the relationship of your dreams, manifest a confident mindset, to use breathwork coaching to process anxiety, stress, or emotional pain, or much more, I’m here to help.
Book your FREE connection call with me, Evelina Hovich, today, and let’s start manifesting the life of your dreams.
The universe has boundless, infinite gifts for each of us in store – we only need to open ourselves to receiving them, and align energetically with them.
If you’ve never experienced this vision of the creative act of conscious manifestation, it can be difficult to believe.
But the life of your dreams is waiting for you.
Book your FREE connection call with me, Evelina Hovich, today, and find out how you can manifest that dream life.